Buying a Strap for son?

[excanuck99]

I want to top a dude. Never had but hope get offer soon. Wish could at Mohegan Sun in CT.

I imagine you will be a great top. It provides nice diversity. I say as someone who enjoys sex either way.

 

[Deleted member 963]

I imagine you will be a great top. It provides nice diversity. I say as someone who enjoys sex either way.

I just horny of moaning and groaning. Grunting too. I am just horny.

 

[excanuck99]

Go out and get laid. I’m sure you’ll have no trouble hooking up.

 

[Deleted member 963]

Go out and get laid. I’m sure you’ll have no trouble hooking up.

Should I just go out tell a dude I need my ball sack emptied and swallowed.

 

[excanuck99]

Should I just go out tell a dude I need my ball sack emptied and swallowed.

Just do it. If nothing else there is Grindr

 

[Deleted member 963]

Just do it. If nothing else there is Grindr

Good advice.

 

[Deleted member 963]

Good advice.

Should I ask on grinder and be honest explaining about my needs for dude provide oral without reciprocation...they would respond?

 

[Deleted member 963]

Not fully erect ball sack full.

 

[billTO]

Should I ask on grinder and be honest explaining about my needs for dude provide oral without reciprocation...they would respond?

I sure would!

 

[SwimmerJock]

And as for involuntary boners growing up
If only there’d been swimmer jockstraps back then and speedos hadn’t been invented
I can remember taking my wetsuit off on a particular day
Unfortunately the preferred swimwear even all those years ago under a wetsuit was speedos
And in fact they were nylon back then leaving very little to the imagination
In fact it was quite obvious …you get where I’m going
Anyway on this particular day I peeled off my wetsuit and lay down on my stomach and with the warm sun on my back life was good
But…I stupidly had a roaming eye and unfortunately my dick had a life of its own and made up its own mind when and what it wanted
Well there nothing and I mean nothing that would ease the pressure other than….
As for what happened next well all I’ll say is most guys have had an involuntary boner at some stage during their adolescence

That’s cool…. I’m not aware of any law forbidding any male of a legitimate boner, especially those involuntary. However, obviously rubbing your penis to arousal and/or whipping a jockstrap/Speedos down to your knees for exposure would present other legal challenges. Many years ago at a physical exam, I popped a sturdy, dripping erection during the digital prostate exam, and soon made a “half apology” to the examining MD. He stated that the “natural erection response and semen release” from such an exam is a very positive “male reflex” indicating that any possible erection problem would hardly need discussion! “Yes sir! Enjoy the erection, like any man should!!” (Of course, that almost sounded like encouragement to ”rub one out” right there! That didn’t happen, though it seemed like he might not have cared whether I did ). Since those “official” words, I’ve never tried to hide an involuntary erection, even in response to seeing another man in a state of voluntary arousal. …. Enjoying one of the things that makes us men.!

 

[uncle101]

If he had bought them for me as a boy to play sports I would have surely discovered them sooner ... I didn't even know they existed until I was 30

I fortunate to get email from Hs student who saw my posting on misterpoll about wearing a jockstap. He was 17 at the time he bought his first jockstrap a bike 3inch waistband and a couple swimmer jocks. After his first time strapped he told me he really neede a jockstrap way back when he was 7yrsold never asked his dad. Finally asked his dad if he had ever worn one back in his day. Dad said yes but by the time the son should have gotten one he had mistakenly forgot to teach his boy.
So through me he’s wearing a jockstap as a adult now. He taught his younger then Jr high cousins to strapping.
So anyone who kids these days won’t wear a jockstrap just teach them.

 

[ScottTheJockGuy]

Scott,
We all have our memory of getting and wearing our first jockstrap, and those of us who are fathers of sons, we have a bonus memory of this rite of passage for our boys, and taking them to buy their first jockstraps and educating them on how to wear them and their uses. I remember the first time I caught my oldest son wearing my jockstrap, he was wearing it backwards and I nearly busted up laughing. I wish you have healthy kids, but a son is an added bonus in my opinion. Have fun with that rite of passage (first jockstrap, puberty/masturbation discovery, erections/retractions, sex the first time etc...)

Definitely looking forward to all those rites of passage, and celebrating him becoming a man each step of the way.

 

[excanuck99]

They may not have been popular to the general population but Omtex Sports out of India has been supplying sportsmen in India and Europe with supporters since 1982.

We also have a LOT of customers in Europe so there are Europeans wearing them. We have the most customers in Germany, France and Spain. I would also say the United Kingdom - but Brexit and all! And we've been supplying Europe with jock since 2005!

American jockstraps and cups have become very popular in cricket. American cups are more comfortable and offer better protection.

 

[excanuck99]

My fantasy is that

I’ve fucked a number of straight guys. All have enjoyed it.

 

[billTO]

How do you make contact with them? I know there are married men who like to bottom but I assume they're at least functionally bi....?

 

[excanuck99]

How do you make contact with them? I know there are married men who like to bottom but I assume they're at least functionally bi....?

Met at drinks or in social settings. Alcohol breaks down inhibitions

 

[Dm106]

62 now but at age 9 I followed what my dad wore each day during the summer jocks were always hand washed and line dried never a dryer. I’ve taught several young guys over the years. Buying youth regular and large jockstraps as I could find to buy and send out.

do you tell them to point up or down in them? I've never known what is "proper"

 

[SwimmerJock]

do you tell them to point up or down in them? I've never known what is "proper"

“Proper” is what’s comfortable, for each guy, at whatever time he feels good this way or that way! Sometimes I “jock up“ to be in comfortable position to facilitate an erection without the constraints of “head down” in the jockstrap mesh. The spontaneous (even encouraged) erection is more easily viewed and better appreciated by those [men] who can easily identify with the pride and pleasure of flaunting a boner through your clothes! Similarly, strapping glans-down in the pouch helps restrain the beast when arousal stirs in otherwise inappropirate, potentially awkward occasions! These “guy tips” were great as suggested to me by a “big brother” (high school buddy) during my early signs of puberty. He also shopped with me when buying my first jockstraps, mandated for junior high-high school gym classes…. and ended up giving me my first full-ejaculation blowjob (and, while wearing a jockstrap), suggesting that it was only the right way to “break-in“ my new athletic supporters!!

 

[Redsucked02]

“Proper” is what’s comfortable, for each guy, at whatever time he feels good this way or that way! Sometimes I “jock up“ to be in comfortable position to facilitate an erection without the constraints of “head down” in the jockstrap mesh. The spontaneous (even encouraged) erection is more easily viewed and better appreciated by those [men] who can easily identify with the pride and pleasure of flaunting a boner through your clothes! Similarly, strapping glans-down in the pouch helps restrain the beast when arousal stirs in otherwise inappropirate, potentially awkward occasions! These “guy tips” were great as suggested to me by a “big brother” (high school buddy) during my early signs of puberty. He also shopped with me when buying my first jockstraps, mandated for junior high-high school gym classes…. and ended up giving me my first full-ejaculation blowjob (and, while wearing a jockstrap), suggesting that it was only the right way to “break-in“ my new athletic supporters!!

Awesome advice and fascinating first jockstrap mentor/experience!

 

[Ray]

Such as these ?View attachment 2824

Love that strap on You!

 

[Woodpath]

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Yes those soft jocks are comfortable aren’t they

 

[Jocked Runner]

“Proper” is what’s comfortable, for each guy, at whatever time he feels good this way or that way! Sometimes I “jock up“ to be in comfortable position to facilitate an erection without the constraints of “head down” in the jockstrap mesh. The spontaneous (even encouraged) erection is more easily viewed and better appreciated by those [men] who can easily identify with the pride and pleasure of flaunting a boner through your clothes! Similarly, strapping glans-down in the pouch helps restrain the beast when arousal stirs in otherwise inappropirate, potentially awkward occasions! These “guy tips” were great as suggested to me by a “big brother” (high school buddy) during my early signs of puberty. He also shopped with me when buying my first jockstraps, mandated for junior high-high school gym classes…. and ended up giving me my first full-ejaculation blowjob (and, while wearing a jockstrap), suggesting that it was only the right way to “break-in“ my new athletic supporters!!

You were lucky to have a mentor who was so “generous” with his time!

 

[ibz1492]

You were lucky to have a mentor who was so “generous” with his time!

I was lucky to have an aware Dad who somehow knew when I wanted/needed my first jock. On Saturday's I loved to go with him to his auto dealership and help out. At lunch, he and I would go to a local café to have lunch and chat. As we ate, he said, "let's go to the sports store to get some things". Just that... We went to the store, and immediately he headed for jocks/underwear/socks... He asked what I wanted. I surely didn't know, so he suggested a few different types of jocks, all in their little boxes. He and I picked out 3 to try. The sales guy looked perhaps like a high school student, and he was cool. He just said for me not to take off my underwear when I tried on the jocks I had with me. Then he winked as if to say: that's stupid, strip down, so you can feel what a jock really feels like. Dad and I went to the changing room, and I stripped; that was no big deal, as my Dad was always very open about us being naked around each other. I stripped and tried on the first one...and I immediately got a boner! Dad laughed a little and said it happens a lot to him too, so I wasn't embarrassed. He mentioned DickUp or DickDown. We talked about this before when I just wore my bathing suit. So he suggested I try both Up and Down positions and see how my dick liked each position. Then I tried the other 2 jocks. I have no recollection of models or types, just that all 3 had Bike on the band. I loved all 3 jocks, and my dick never went down. Dad was really so cool, and suggested I keep one jock on, put my underwear in the box, and we would buy all 3 jocks. I couldn't wait to get home and jerkoff! That is a really great memory, and my Dad continues to be a super great, really still "with it" guy.

 

[Jocked Runner]

I was lucky to have an aware Dad who somehow knew when I wanted/needed my first jock. On Saturday's I loved to go with him to his auto dealership and help out. At lunch, he and I would go to a local café to have lunch and chat. As we ate, he said, "let's go to the sports store to get some things". Just that... We went to the store, and immediately he headed for jocks/underwear/socks... He asked what I wanted. I surely didn't know, so he suggested a few different types of jocks, all in their little boxes. He and I picked out 3 to try. The sales guy looked perhaps like a high school student, and he was cool. He just said for me not to take off my underwear when I tried on the jocks I had with me. Then he winked as if to say: that's stupid, strip down, so you can feel what a jock really feels like. Dad and I went to the changing room, and I stripped; that was no big deal, as my Dad was always very open about us being naked around each other. I stripped and tried on the first one...and I immediately got a boner! Dad laughed a little and said it happens a lot to him too, so I wasn't embarrassed. He mentioned DickUp or DickDown. We talked about this before when I just wore my bathing suit. So he suggested I try both Up and Down positions and see how my dick liked each position. Then I tried the other 2 jocks. I have no recollection of models or types, just that all 3 had Bike on the band. I loved all 3 jocks, and my dick never went down. Dad was really so cool, and suggested I keep one jock on, put my underwear in the box, and we would buy all 3 jocks. I couldn't wait to get home and jerkoff! That is a really great memory, and my Dad continues to be a super great, really still "with it" guy.

Wow! What a lovely dad you seem to have. That’s a very precious thing to have a dad you can chat to (not just about jocks) and just happily spend time with.

 

[ibz1492]

Wow! What a lovely dad you seem to have. That’s a very precious thing to have a dad you can chat to (not just about jocks) and just happily spend time with.

I think I have always known that my Dad is special. He is a man of few words, but commands attention and respect wherever he is. I have heard people say they are "afraid of him". One of his employees told me that the first day he came to work for my Dad, he was so afraid of my Dad that he tried to stay wherever my Dad was not. Once people get to know him, they like him a lot because he is strict, very fair, super smart, and will do any job that needs doing, and sometimes does so, to be a good example. Not everyone is so lucky; if you are lucky, tell your Dad how you appreciate whatever he means to you...