Buying a Strap for son?

Timothy said:

So so true! That being said, I need to go donn my hardcup, and jack off a few loads…

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SwimmerJock said:

Likewise, I could have benefitted from the understanding/support (and supporters) of an older brother.

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ScottTheJockGuy said:

He's also who taught me to fit cock and balls in my mouth.

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BillyC said:

That’s what I’d call a good buddy! Hopefully he taught by example.

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ScottTheJockGuy said:

If by example, you mean he stood proudly while my mouth was filled, and he pushed his balls in my mouth, then yes

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ScottTheJockGuy said:

Same. I wish I had an older brother to get advice from, whether that was on how to be a man, how to get girls, puberty, ECT.
I was lucky enough to have a buddy who was two years older than me. He's who helped me get a lot more comfortable with my body. Before him, I was afraid to be seen in my underwear. Even afraid that my dad would see my dick. But my buddy helped me get comfortable with nudity. We'd hang out in our briefs, or nude. He's also who taught me to fit cock and balls in my mouth.

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JockbudNYC said:

Sounds like you got very close. Definitely a need to help guys to feel comfortable with their bodies. It is one of the biggest issues I hear about from me in therapy.

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billTO said:

If I may ask are you the therapist, or the therapee?

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JockbudNYC said:

I am the therapist.
that said, nothing I write on this forum or the conversation mail portion should be considered professional advice and is meant for edutainment purposes only. If you have a specific questions you will need to make an appointment.

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ScottTheJockGuy said:

If I make an appointment, will you make me turn my head and cough?

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JockbudNYC said:

After I bend you over and cheeks and massage your prostate

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JockbudNYC said:

I am the therapist.
that said, nothing I write on this forum or the conversation mail portion should be considered professional advice and is meant for edutainment purposes only. If you have a specific questions you will need to make an appointment.

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BillyC said:

You sound like my husband, an attorney and former Federal Judge. I can recite his disclaimer in my sleep that he gives when people ask him “casual” legal questions.

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JockbudNYC said:

He sounds like a smart guy. Does he ever just wear a jockstrap under the robe?

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BillyC said:

He used to . . . He resigned from the court two and a half years ago. Now he only wears the robe for some . . . specialized play.

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JockbudNYC said:

I understand the penal code can be quite rigid

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SwimmerJock said:

My ”playing field” is usually smooth by regular maintenance, or at least, otherwise clearly manscaped. While I normally begin the gym shower in my sweaty-then-soapy workout jockstrap, it has to be removed soon enough! Many other guys in the gym gang showers have paid nonverbal compliments by extended looks/stares at my “hedge maintenance,“ soon followed by a rapid “extension” response erection. I have no problem plainly telling (and showing) the other shower buddy(s) that my piece always bones up under a warm shower…. especially when being “admired” by others responding with similar contagious male growth. Sometimes, I do some trimming/shaving in the showers while other guys are present. …and, why not? If you got balls, take pride in your scrotal maintenance! Always discreet, we‘ve occasionally shared some healthy, natural shower-power stroke-off sessions. Apparently, smooth/trimmed pubic hedges are a source of inspiration in many ways…. but, we all seem to naturally enjoy the mutual admiration, and the cleansing power and refreshment of a group shower !

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SwimmerJock said:

Likewise, I could have benefitted from the understanding/support (and supporters) of an older brother. Fortunately, my Dad was a very positive, understanding roll model, though 40 years older. He encouraged me to appreciate and enjoy my body’s natural, pleasurable functions even those “needing my helping hand.” When I was a adolescent/teen, we frequently went to the YMCA together, put on jockstraps, played (taught me) basketball, swam (nude at that time), gang-showered together. All those things were a natural part of my male growing up. Occasionally, either/both of us would see the other with a spontaneous boner (though, my younger age naturally brought it up with greater regularity), we’d simply smile and enjoy the “man moment” without any problem. I think, there’s a natural pride and physical arousal in a father upon seeing his son physically “become a man” of reproductive capability. This would be a subtle, natural pride that would not otherwise be openly expressed as such. He also said that lots of older guys would notice with envy, wishing they could easily have a “sturdy stud erection,“ and, thus, I should never be embarrassed/ashamed if it happened in the gym locker room/shower, my jockstrap, or under the sheets… “enjoy it like any man should. …your body doesn‘t lie.“ That’s life!

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Oldschoolbiketen said:

I became part of the family, my father passed away when I was 12. I was friends and teammates with his boys so I spent many nights at their house. And as a house of athletes, modesty wasn't a problem. Lol

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TideFan4199 said:

Great advice!!! Great dad! I would always bone in locker room/shower… at base pool and once started playing ball in Jr High… just thinking about all my buds in locker room got me boned!! But was scared to just let it show… tried to disguise it… lol… wouldn’t now!

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BillyC said:

I remember those days. The attempt to disguise it was absurd and futile, but we all did . . . until we didn’t.

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TideFan4199 said:

Exactly….wish I had at that age…but afraid other guys would freak when I think we were all in same place. Only had one bud back then that we relaxed and got cool with each other

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Timothy said:

Shit, I got pulled aside by my coach for having shot my load in the public showers in high school!!! BFD!
Three other boys, then worked feverishly on their cocks shooting their loads also. so let’s just share fresh young Sperm was aplenty in the gang bang showers those days.

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TideFan4199 said:

Shit man…loved to gone to your school..lol. I would have stayed boned ! I’d start boning just walking to locker room after practice! Knew get to see all that hot teen bods and cock

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Timothy said:

I know and you know what? I thought that’s the way it simply was in every high school gym showers.
and When our coach took showers with us boys, as he had to from time to time if he was subbing a regular school class following our gym class, he was boned up pretty well in the showers when showering with us boys too.
I thought that’s just what boys do with other boys and men do with other men and do with boys and do with their sons, nephews, etc., just any & all males did with each other and together - regardless of age.
Hmmmmm…

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