I cum too quickly

[SocalJocks4me]

Hi all,

I know it comes with practice but I don't last too long in the bedroom. I will usually ejaculate prematurely and to some it's a turn on and to some I wish I could last longer. Usually i bottom but in my 20s I used to top a hot muscle daddy in his jock. He was the man who taught me how to fuck and we had a good thing going. I'm now 38 and I've been experimenting fucking guys but I don't last long, a few thrusts and I'm done. I've tried sprays to help last longer which worked at first but now I may have developed immunity.

Any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you boys.

 

[Mick]

I’ve read the Fleshlight is good for this type of thing. It helps you to know when you’re about to cum and learn to hold it off.

 

[packedstrap]

During the FOX show "Joe Millionaire" the one mother asked about stamina and time in the bedroom. One admitted he always finished first. Personally, I thought the best twist on the show would have been for the two guys to go off together. Not a "reality" show guy, but that bromance was a little to connected. Someone was legs up in that Batchler pad when the blue balls kicked in.

 

[SocalJocks4me]

I’ve read the Fleshlight is good for this type of thing. It helps you to know when you’re about to cum and learn to hold it off.

Sounds like a good idea!

 

[Wallyyyy]

This may sound basic, but have you tried edging? I’ve found that edging makes me concentrate in how my body is responding to the stimulation I’m giving myself and whenever I get that certain “getting ready” sensation, I stop and let myself relax. You have to concentrate to find that ever so slight feeling. Take your time and you will find it. As you get better and better at noticing that point, you’ll be able to control yourself and last longer and longer before pumping your load. I’ve gotten myself to hold up for almost 30 minutes. It may take you to pull out often (or stop stroking), but I’ve found it helps.

 

[ScottTheJockGuy]

The flashlight is definitely a good idea. Did great things for me, but it takes a lot of practice.

you could try Sertraline. You’d need to talk to your doctor about it. It’s technically an antidepressant (Zoloft), but it’s been prescribed to guys for helping with premature ejaculation. Heads up though, it may work too well and cause you to go soft. You may need to reduce how much you take, or take a pill for ED as well.

 

[Wallyyyy]

The flashlight is definitely a good idea. Did great things for me, but it takes a lot of practice.

you could try Sertraline. You’d need to talk to your doctor about it. It’s technically an antidepressant (Zoloft), but it’s been prescribed to guys for helping with premature ejaculation. Heads up though, it may work too well and cause you to go soft. You may need to reduce how much you take, or take a pill for ED as well.

A study of 46 guys with premature ejaculation ranging in age from 22 to 63 years and prescribed sertraline did produce some results in some guys. At a 25mg daily dose, average ejaculatory time was increased by 7 minutes; at 50mg, 13 minutes; at 100mg, 16 minutes. Side effect profile was the same for the drug for any other approved use.

 

[ScottTheJockGuy]

A study of 46 guys with premature ejaculation ranging in age from 22 to 63 years and prescribed sertraline did produce some results in some guys. At a 25mg daily dose, average ejaculatory time was increased by 7 minutes; at 50mg, 13 minutes; at 100mg, 16 minutes. Side effect profile was the same for the drug for any other approved use.

When I was able to maintain an erection while on it, it was definitely fun getting to fuck longer. But I needed to start Cialis to stay hard long enough to cum

 

[Mick]

This may sound basic, but have you tried edging? I’ve found that edging makes me concentrate in how my body is responding to the stimulation I’m giving myself and whenever I get that certain “getting ready” sensation, I stop and let myself relax. You have to concentrate to find that ever so slight feeling. Take your time and you will find it. As you get better and better at noticing that point, you’ll be able to control yourself and last longer and longer before pumping your load. I’ve gotten myself to hold up for almost 30 minutes. It may take you to pull out often (or stop stroking), but I’ve found it helps.

Yes…I believe this is how the FLESHJACK works because it simulates being inside a mouth or ass as opposed to using your hand. The FLESHLIGHT is geared toward our straight brothers.

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[Thomas_C]

If you use a FleshJack, I would recommend to always use condoms because otherwise it will get dirty very fast. Also, I would recommend the "Ice Jack"
https://www.fleshjack.eu/collections/fleshjack-ice
so you can check if it's clean.

 

[BillyC]

Hi all,

I know it comes with practice but I don't last too long in the bedroom. I will usually ejaculate prematurely and to some it's a turn on and to some I wish I could last longer. Usually i bottom but in my 20s I used to top a hot muscle daddy in his jock. He was the man who taught me how to fuck and we had a good thing going. I'm now 38 and I've been experimenting fucking guys but I don't last long, a few thrusts and I'm done. I've tried sprays to help last longer which worked at first but now I may have developed immunity.

Any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you boys.

I don’t have advice — in my case I have throughout my life had the opposite problem. I can say that I’ve heard from my doctor stepson that low doses of Zoloft help eliminate the premature ejaculation.

 

[BillyC]

A study of 46 guys with premature ejaculation ranging in age from 22 to 63 years and prescribed sertraline did produce some results in some guys. At a 25mg daily dose, average ejaculatory time was increased by 7 minutes; at 50mg, 13 minutes; at 100mg, 16 minutes. Side effect profile was the same for the drug for any other approved use.

The flashlight is definitely a good idea. Did great things for me, but it takes a lot of practice.

you could try Sertraline. You’d need to talk to your doctor about it. It’s technically an antidepressant (Zoloft), but it’s been prescribed to guys for helping with premature ejaculation. Heads up though, it may work too well and cause you to go soft. You may need to reduce how much you take, or take a pill for ED as well.

You beat me to the recommendation — I didn’t know sertraline is generic for Zoloft. I also didn’t know it was that Linear A relationship between dosage and increased time to objective — weird.

 

[WpbMike]

I have the exact opposite problem. It takes me forever to shoot my load; but many times thats a good thing.

 

[BillyC]

I have the exact opposite problem. It takes me forever to shoot my load; but many times thats a good thing.

When my husband and I first hooked up, after an afternoon and evening of pigsex he finally says, “As much as I fuckn love your stamina, my poor hole would be grateful if you’d let yourself nut a bit sooner. I confessed that I wasn’t working to not nut, I was doing everything I could TO nut . . . before I wore us both down. Somehow we adjusted. But it’s all just variants of physiology, isn’t it?

 

[Charles]

I have a hard time cumming when I use viagra.

 

[packedstrap]

I have the exact opposite problem. It takes me forever to shoot my load; but many times thats a good thing.

That happens with age...LOL

 

[BillyC]

I have a hard time cumming when I use viagra.

We have some friends who use Viagra recreationally, and they say the same. So I ask them WTF is the point then?

 

[Thomas_C]

Another, very fun, solution is just don't try to fight it, enjoy, cum, let it go & after a few seconds start again without pulling out (if anyone knows how this is called, please reply). My hub does that, can do it at least five times, in my opinion very horny.

As far as I know, not a lot of guys (can) do it but if you can you’re probably one of the few who do.

If you want to practice with your Ice FleshJack, you could use a (X)XL condom with lube inside the condom. Insert the condom into the IceJack, maybe with a long dildo & have fun.

If you want to use a condom to fuck your bottom, you could use an internal condom, for example:

https://pasante.com/collections/internal/products/non-latex-female-condom-3-pack

 

[Charles]

We have some friends who use Viagra recreationally, and they say the same. So I ask them WTF is the point then?

It might balance cumming too soon. I don’t use it but did try it a couple times and it worked well for sustaining my boner.

 

[BillyC]

Another, very fun, solution is just don't try to fight it, enjoy, cum, let it go & after a few seconds start again without pulling out (if anyone knows how this is called, please reply). My hub does that, can do it at least five times, in my opinion very horny.

As far as I know, not a lot of guys (can) do it but if you can you’re probably one of the few who do.

If you want to practice with your Ice FleshJack, you could use a (X)XL condom with lube inside the condom. Insert the condom into the IceJack, maybe with a long dildo & have fun.

If you want to use a condom to fuck your bottom, you could use an internal condom, for example:

https://pasante.com/collections/internal/products/non-latex-female-condom-3-pack

Whoa five times? Put me to shame!

 

[Thomas_C]

Whoa five times? Put me to shame!

At least five times: the first three are to warm up, the next two are to get up to cruising speed. You don't have to be ashamed in my opinion, if you want it, I'm sure you can achieve it too.

 

[BillyC]

At least five times: the first three are to warm up, the next two are to get up to cruising speed. You don't have to be ashamed in my opinion, if you want it, I'm sure you can achieve it too.

A man should know when to fold. The stamina cards I was dealt do NOT have me pulling 5. A double “fuck-through” to a 3rd continuous orgasm is not only exhausting but painful. 5, I’d have my cock in an ice pack and my husband in the ER with a wrecked hole!

 

[WpbMike]

Less than two years ago I was able to cum 7 times in a day. A friend bet me I couldn’t, so throughout the day I sent him a video of each cumshot. He was shocked (I actually messed up on video #5, and it only caught parts of the cumshot). Nonetheless, I doubt I could do it today - I’ve had a lot of medical issues and am on so many meds I doubt it would happen…. Not that I wouldn’t be willing to try again!!!

 

[BillyC]

Less than two years ago I was able to cum 7 times in a day. A friend bet me I couldn’t, so throughout the day I sent him a video of each cumshot. He was shocked (I actually messed up on video #5, and it only caught parts of the cumshot). Nonetheless, I doubt I could do it today - I’ve had a lot of medical issues and am on so many meds I doubt it would happen…. Not that I wouldn’t be willing to try again!!!

I could PROBABLY still get 7 or 8 over a day’s period. But the fuck-through continuations we were talking about earlier, no fuckn (pun INtended!) way.

 

[WpbMike]

I could PROBABLY still get 7 or 8 over a day’s period. But the fuck-through continuations we were talking about earlier, no fuckn (pun INtended!) way.

I hear you @BillyC