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Advice Needed: Talking to a Fellow Jock Wearer

Monty_Ross

Jockstrap Fan
Hey jockstrap friends,

For the last few weeks at the gym, when I enter the locker room in the morning, I see the same guy. Handsome, super fit, nice smile, yummy looking package, and an ass I’d love to destroy. We’ve made eye contact quite a few times and had a very brief exchange about our love of jockstraps. He primarily wears white Bike jocks and I don my Pro jocks, which he had never heard of. We had one moment where we showered across from each other. I didn’t know he was there because I close my shower curtain. He does not and was fully stroking when I left (I didn’t register what was happening until much later and when I threw my towel back on to go back to the shower, he had left.)

Aside from that brief convo and moment in the showers, we don’t really say or do much except catch each other’s eyes.

I tend to be VERY reserved in the locker room because of a terrifying experience I had my first year of college. So initiating any phone # exchange or even joining any kind of shower action makes me uncomfortable. But I sense he’s interested. What do I do?

Another fun fact: he does not put a lock on his locker. So it would not be hard for me to drop a jock or a note or both in there for him to find at a later moment. But that might be a little creepy.

Thoughts? Advice?
 

Mick

Jockstrap Fan
It sounds like you’re circling each other, but I definitely understand the hesitation, especially at a gym you frequent. That said, maybe drop a Pro in his locker. If he says anything, just say you thought he’d like to try one out.
 

Monty_Ross

Jockstrap Fan
It sounds like you’re circling each other, but I definitely understand the hesitation, especially at a gym you frequent. That said, maybe drop a Pro in his locker. If he says anything, just say you thought he’d like to try one out.
"Circling each other" never heard that phrase before but it makes sense. And yeah, there is strong hesitation there. He seems a bit more forward with the sexual antics in the locker room (walks around naked, shows his semi and fully erect dick, showers without curtain closed, etc.) but doesn't seem as forward with initiating communication. Perhaps, he is just looking for NSA fun and doesn't wanna talk?

You also recommend dropping jock in his locker huh? No note with it, right? Just the jock?
 

Monty_Ross

Jockstrap Fan
How about getting together for a drink? Old school approach
I'd love that. But do I just go up to him in the locker room and ask him that? If so, how do I not make that weird (feels like it might be weird, no? Am I overthinking?)
 

Mick

Jockstrap Fan
"Circling each other" never heard that phrase before but it makes sense. And yeah, there is strong hesitation there. He seems a bit more forward with the sexual antics in the locker room (walks around naked, shows his semi and fully erect dick, showers without curtain closed, etc.) but doesn't seem as forward with initiating communication. Perhaps, he is just looking for NSA fun and doesn't wanna talk?

You also recommend dropping jock in his locker huh? No note with it, right? Just the jock?
If you leave a Pro, he should know it‘s you. 😉
 

Mick

Jockstrap Fan
I'd love that. But do I just go up to him in the locker room and ask him that? If so, how do I not make that weird (feels like it might be weird, no? Am I overthinking?)
A good time would be when you’re already talking. Maybe suggest you're enjoying your chat but would like to take it to a bar or coffee shop?
 

BillyC

If not commando, then jocked.
Leave him a Pro with your phone number written on the waistband
That OR take the direct approach. “Am I wrong, or how about we meet up after the workout?” If you really have balls, go my approach, “How about we meet up after the workout for the REAL workout we both want?” I’m a Marine — we’re not known for subtlety.

Sorry about your bad experience in college, but you’re past that, this is 2023, and it’s fair to express interest and make an offer. The stroking in the shower tells me my approach wouldn’t be out of line, but the lighter but direct approach definitely.

Whatever you decide, we all want to know. And I’m sure I speak for everyone — good luck man!
 

Redsucked02

More in my albums!
It sounds like you’re circling each other, but I definitely understand the hesitation, especially at a gym you frequent. That said, maybe drop a Pro in his locker. If he says anything, just say you thought he’d like to try one out.
Excellent advice! He's probably wondering why you didn't respond to his shower display! Might not do that again unless he knows you're still interested
 

Redsucked02

More in my albums!
"Circling each other" never heard that phrase before but it makes sense. And yeah, there is strong hesitation there. He seems a bit more forward with the sexual antics in the locker room (walks around naked, shows his semi and fully erect dick, showers without curtain closed, etc.) but doesn't seem as forward with initiating communication. Perhaps, he is just looking for NSA fun and doesn't wanna talk?

You also recommend dropping jock in his locker huh? No note with it, right? Just the jock?
Leave a short note...thought you'd like to try this jockstrap out and your nane & phone number
 
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Monty_Ross

Jockstrap Fan
Well thank you all for your help (and @BillyC mahalo plenty for your concern about my balls. They are totally fine, btw.)

I struck up convo with him this morning and had a clear window to initiate something more. He is not interested in anything outside the gym nor does he want to borrow a jock. Just looking to have some NSA fun in the showers or sauna. Oh well; can't win em all.

Appreciate it! Have a great day, all.
 

WpbMike

Jockstrap Fan
Well thank you all for your help (and @BillyC mahalo plenty for your concern about my balls. They are totally fine, btw.)

I struck up convo with him this morning and had a clear window to initiate something more. He is not interested in anything outside the gym nor does he want to borrow a jock. Just looking to have some NSA fun in the showers or sauna. Oh well; can't win em all.

Appreciate it! Have a great day, all.

Thanks for the update. Glad you were able to at least come to closure on this. Have fun in the showers and sauna though!
 

BillyC

If not commando, then jocked.
Well thank you all for your help (and @BillyC mahalo plenty for your concern about my balls. They are totally fine, btw.)

I struck up convo with him this morning and had a clear window to initiate something more. He is not interested in anything outside the gym nor does he want to borrow a jock. Just looking to have some NSA fun in the showers or sauna. Oh well; can't win em all.

Appreciate it! Have a great day, all.
It’s something to work with. Blow him in the shower and sauna, and make certain it’s the best damn nut drain he’s ever had. He’ll be back . . . and then you’ll reel him in. My husband taught me ALL the strategy.
 
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