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I have had a masseur for two years. I always show up with one of my many jockstraps or thongs but always undress totally. He never has me lie on my back so he never has access to my cock n balls. He gets me so horny sometimes that i raise my ass up and moan, and have grabbed for his hand to hold it a couple of times. Am I barking up the wrong tree as he never reciprocates?

ibz1492 said:

I have had a masseur for two years. I always show up with one of my many jockstraps or thongs but always undress totally. He never has me lie on my back so he never has access to my cock n balls. He gets me so horny sometimes that i raise my ass up and moan, and have grabbed for his hand to hold it a couple of times. Am I barking up the wrong tree as he never reciprocates?

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If he is LMT (Licensed Massage Therapist) he might fear legal/licensing issues if you were anonymously checking for “violations“ of particular laws applicable in one state or another. It might help to ask him if, in addition to “therapeutic“ massage, he offers or knows about “sensual,” “tantric,” or “erotic” touch massage. Surely, he has provided such massage since he is a man massaging other men. Does he stay mostly dressed while massaging, or does he strip down to shorts, briefs, thong, jockstrap.... or totally nude? If he were minimally clothed, or naked, you could easily detect his own state of arousal, which certainly brings almost any man to a willful state of compromise... yes, boners are contagious, and beg for attention, nonverbally! Also, if he has you lie only on your stomach/front for the massage, you seem to be missing half of the massage.... forgetting your frontal massage (pecs, pelvis/pubic zone, stomach, face, etc).. Be sure to ask him if he is aware that he is only working on your back. Or, halfway through your massage time, simply flip over, or ask to turn over. Your throbbing erection should be a pretty clear sign. Normally, an honest “boundaries” conversation (before massage) will “break the ice“ and give the the masseurs an excellent sense of what you except and accept as a thorough massage. Like most of us, this guy must enjoy the human experience of touching and being touched... he massages frequently! And, like most masseurs, he wants to meet his client’s expectations. In my opinion, based on experiences (giving and receiving), most, if not all males, will totally accept the erotic/sensual pleasures as a healthy and normal part of a good massage. Masseurs will generally appreciate your erection as telling them they’re doing a good job massaging, and blood flow ! On rare occasions, a massuer or client will politely decline (giving or receiving) that aspect of a regular massage. In that case, you might ask if he minds you stroking/masturbating yourself during the massage, whenever sprouting your wood. As males, we connect well with each other on this level, with respect to our needs/desires to share and release erotic energy. This is true whether we call ourselves straight, bi, gay, or anything else in the spectrum . I‘ve recently begun learning and sharing massage experiences with other “massage enthusiasts” at MassageExchange.com .... no license or experience needed, only the desire to give and/or receive massage as you mutually agree with other member(s). Massage is (received and given) to make us feel good, so why not make the most of feeling good?

makes me horny for jock play