bathhouse

I went to a bathouse for the first time recently and an older fella told me I shouldn’t be wearing it there. Just a towel. I noticed they had some for sale and I asked the front desk guy if it was ok to wear and he said absolutely. I was the only one wearing one there which surprised me…also...

Went to a gay sauna the other night and noticed all the guys wearing jocks were younger and bottoms. Is this your experience?

Framed memory

I’m from a small town environment—grew up in one and went to college in another. I sort of looked the part too—I look boyish and am around 5’8”, blond hair, green eyes and a smooth hairless body. Being in small town environments always made me think twice about letting on that I was into guys...